| 1. How old are you? |
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| 15 |
| 2. What do you like doing? Hobbies?
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| Playing soccer, going to Creation, playing
and watching football, flirting with boys, shopping, and hanging
with friends. |
| 3. What are your plans for the future?
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| Go to college at Penn State, play soccer
at Penn State, and become a physical therapist. |
| 4. Is marriage something you thought
about for your future? |
| Yes, I would love to get married.
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| 5. Do you expect marriage
to last? What are the odds of marriage lasting today, and what do
you think is necessary for a couple to make love last? |
| Yes, I don't like the idea of
divorce, but the odds of marriages lasting today are not too good.
It is necessary for a couple to have trust, communication, God,
commitment, compromise, and sacrifice. |
| 6. How important is trust
in your relationships? What are things that you can do to either
build or destroy trust in current relationships and future ones?
|
| Trust is extremely important
in my relationships. Trust is built on communication, honesty, and
forgiveness, but it can be destroyed by lying, cheating, selfishness,
and rumors. |
| 7. What is the purpose
of dating? Describe a "typical" date. Does this description succeed
in meeting the purpose and goals you suggested for dating? |
| The purpose of dating is to find
a future husband and also discover what attributes are important
in a future husband. My typical dates have included going to the
movies and dinner, amusement parks, and corn mazes. They are all
fun and can really reveal someone's personality. Unless the person
is shy in groups it meets its purpose. |
| 8. What is the difference
between love and lust? |
| Love is when you put your happiness
in the happiness of another. Lust is when you are trying to make
yourself happy; it is not normally very deep and meaningful. |
| 9. How would you go about
talking to your date about boundaries? When and where? How? |
| I would talk about it privately,
after the first date; I would ease it into the conversation. |
| 10. How would you handle
a relationship in which your boundaries were not being respected?
What does this lack of respect tell you about the person? And about
your relationship? |
| I would confront them about it
and if they keep on disrespecting me, then I would breakup with
them. It tells me that they only want one thing, and it is totally
physical. |
| 11. What do you hope for
in a husband/wife (your definition of Mr. or Mrs. Right)? What do
you think they hope for in a wife or husband? |
| I hope for a lot in my future
husband. I have a very long list of characteristics for my future
spouse. Just a few of them include: Christian, good with kids, kind,
funny, serious, deep thinker, football player (a plus!), healthy,
physically fit, goal-oriented, and the list goes on . . . I hope
that they want some, if not all, of the characteristics I possess.
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| 12. What is Renewed Virginity?
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| It is when God makes you a "virgin"
again. You promise to not have sex again until marriage. |
| 13. Have you made any decisions
since coming to Care Net? |
| Yes, I made the pledge to stay
pure until marriage. |
| 14. Is Renewed Virginity
hard to keep? |
| For me personally it gets easier
everyday to keep my pledge for renewed virginity. There are still
temptations but with God's help I don't give in. |
| 15. How do you feel about
this pledge? |
| I think that this is a good pledge
to make and really helps to show how forgiving God is. |
